She Called Me Woman Nigeria's Queer Women Speak

Introduction 1 I Pray That Everyone Has Forgotten 18 She Called Me 'Woman' 24 Love Is Not Wrong 39 I Only Admire Girls 49 I Am A Proud Lesbian 57 We Have Social Media Now. We Have Exposure 65 Focusing On Joy 79 My Sexuality Is Just The Icing On The Cake 91 This Is Not Our World 102 The Happiest Moments Of My Life Are Yet To Come 120 Living A Double Life 125 Doing Things My Own Way 139 I Want To Be Myself Around People I Care About 147 What Is Happiness? 164 To Anyone Being Hated, Be Strong 172 My Past Lovers Have Made Me Who I Am 188 Some Things You Do For Your Heart 192 Your Sexuality Doesn't Define Who You Are 203 Who I Have Sex With Is Not Part Of My Identity 215 If You Want Lesbian, Go To Room 24 220 Everybody In J-Town Is Now A Lola 239 Same-Sex Relationships Are A Choice 250 This Same-Sex Thing Stays A Long Time 261 When I Die, I Just Want To Be Remembered 265 There Is No One Way To Be A Woman 275 A Woman Who Loves Other Women 283 I Don't Believe In Love 292 I Can Still Love More 304 Why Do I Have To Ask You To Consider Me Human? 312 I Convinced Myself I Wasn't A Lesbian 329 Biographies 341 Acknowledgements 342