Sickened The unforgettable, must-read true story and Sunday Times bestseller

Munchhausen by Proxy is…

Mikka Liest aus Zwischen den Seiten am 18.06.2013
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Munchhausen by Proxy is probably one of the most perfidious forms of child abuse. In most cases it's the mother that purposefully makes her child (or children) sick, mentally and/or physically - just so that she can bathe in the attention, the admiration and praiseful recognition she gets for being the devoted, altruistic caretaker of a sick child. Often, it's only recognized when one child has already died and a sibling has mysteriously fallen ill with similar symptoms. Julie, the author and heroine of this story, grew up believing her mother's lies, faithfully going through with countless doctor's appointments, taking a wide variety of meds, missing many, many days of school. She thought of herself as weak, frail, stupid, flawed. She never realized it was her mother that was making her sick. Sure, often the crippling migraines only started AFTER her mother made her swallow a pill... But surely that only meant that her mother knew her well enough to see that a migraine was coming on? Once, when Julie was 13, she blurted out "My mother is making it up!", out of fear of a scary operation. But it took many, many years before she herself realized that this was nothing but the truth. "Sickened" is, well, the sickening tale of a mother who will stop at nothing to make the world revolve her, sacrificing the well-being of her own children, a variety of foster children and her husband without a second thought. She uses many means beyond the Munchhausen, like telling outrageous lies to her husband to make him mad enough at the children that he will beat them, or threatening suicide. And surprisingly, I found the book was very well-written, too. There's something rather poetic about the language, and it's impressive how crystal-clear the author is able to look at her own life.