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The Joy of Conflict Resolution Transforming Victims, Villains and Heroes in the Workplace and at Home

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Taschenbuch

Erscheinungsdatum

20.05.2004

Verlag

Ingram Publishers Services

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208

Maße (L/B/H)

22,9/15,2/1,2 cm

Gewicht

300 g

Sprache

Englisch

ISBN

978-0-86571-515-8

Beschreibung

Produktdetails

Einband

Taschenbuch

Erscheinungsdatum

20.05.2004

Verlag

Ingram Publishers Services

Seitenzahl

208

Maße (L/B/H)

22,9/15,2/1,2 cm

Gewicht

300 g

Sprache

Englisch

ISBN

978-0-86571-515-8

Herstelleradresse

Libri GmbH
Europaallee 1
36244 Bad Hersfeld
DE

Email: gpsr@libri.de

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  • Produktbild: The Joy of Conflict Resolution
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  • Acknowledgments
    Introduction

    CHAPTER 1: VICTIMS, VILLAINS, AND HEROES
    Fairy tales of conflict
    Roles we play
    Beyond the drama triangle

    CHAPTER 2: LESSONS FROM THE SANDBOX
    Grow up, already
    My PhD advisor can beat up your PhD advisor
    Themes from the playground
    It's hard to see the picture when you're in the frame
    Conflict as its own reward
    The roots of defensiveness

    CHAPTER 3: JUST LIKE THE MOVIES
    Elements of conflict stories
    What drives us?
    Our conflict dramas
    When did the knife go in?
    The journey from confrontation to collaboration

    CHAPTER 4: WELCOME TO TURM-OIL INC .
    Co-workers in conflict
    Black Friday

    CHAPTER 5: THE ASSUMPTION ICEBERG
    Book 'em, Dinah
    Motive and impact
    Book 'em, Dinah (revisited)

    CHAPTER 6: THE WOBBLY STOOL OF CONFLICT
    The three legs of conflict
    Big Bob goes bananas
    Diagnosing resistance
    Identifying the problem
    Respecting process needs
    Stabilizing the emotion
    Big Bob goes bananas (revisited)

    CHAPTER 7: THE PERILS OF ANGER MOUNTAIN
    Responses to anger
    Significance of the anger arousal cycle
    Strategies to defuse others' anger
    The time and place for apologies

    CHAPTER 8: BEWARE THE CONFLICT GREMLINS
    Strategies to manage our own anger
    Get to know your gremlins
    What to do about our gremlins
    Listen to your inner coach

    CHAPTER 9: THE POWER OF LISTENING
    The North Wind and the Sun
    Why listen?
    Silence is golden
    Proving you understand
    How to get the full story
    A metaphor is worth a thousand words
    The importance of being genuine

    CHAPTER 10: SPINNING THE STRAW OF DEFENSIVENESS
    The chain reaction of defensiveness
    Defining defensiveness
    Spinning the gold of understanding
    Forms of defensiveness: more lessons from the sandbox
    Warming the climate
    Doug separates the person from the problem
    When you hit bedrock

    CHAPTER 11: ESCAPING THE TRAP OF POSITIONS
    No room at the inn for Vic
    Trapped by positions
    Naming the topic
    The key to collaboration - interests and needs
    Shifting from positions to interests

    CHAPTER 12: PROBING THE DEPTHS OF CONFLICT
    Shifting judgment to curiosity
    All questions are not created equal
    Peeling the onion for the real story
    I'll show you mine if ...
    Ask only if you really want to know

    CHAPTER 13: STANDING UP FOR OURSELVES (WITHOUT KNOCKING THE OTHER PERSON DOWN)
    An alternative to fight or flight
    Passive behavior
    Aggressive behavior
    "I" statements
    The difficult person story
    "I'm okay. They need professional help"
    Describing the difficult behavior
    First within, then without
    The D-E-S statement
    When the other person doesn't respond
    A few tips

    CHAPTER 14: THE ROAD TO RESOLUTION
    Preparing to meet
    Doug's preparation to meet with Marko
    Steps to collaboration
    The conflict resolution two-step

    CHAPTER 15: TIPS FOR THE TRAVELER
    Being a warrior of the heart
    The inner work
    Active curiosity
    Focusing on specific skills
    Changing the dance
    Don't go it alone
    Other tips

    Resources
    Bibliography
    Index
    About the Author